Comments on: I Ate My Love Letter (When Crushes Crush You)

By: Alexandaria Keriouki

Alexandaria Keriouki — Mon, 07 Jan 2008 03:00:04 +0000

Hmmm, Just sound like i did, I fell for a boy,i wrote lots of love letters,
im too scared thats may he think im stupid or something…
im fell for him about 6years but sadly he never know that i love him too much,now i don’t see him for tooo long time..i wish i can tell him ” i love you” for very first time when i can have last chance….

when i read your love prom letter ,i realized …

so thats i want to tell you by comment

from Alexandaria Keriouki

By: The Light

The Light — Mon, 14 Apr 2008 08:11:50 +0000

Hello Alexandria,

Your emotions may be based on various things eg. spiritual or physical. I suggest you pray about them and let GOD intervain in your crush.

Reason is emotions can be misleading. Emotions need to be controlled by you and the one who created you.

I have had various crushes and prayed to GOD to help me which He has.

Just PUSH (Pray Until Something Happens). Thats my philosophy.

By: Pao Pao

Pao Pao — Fri, 25 Apr 2008 12:20:37 +0000

Very good article, really touched me and i guess i’m going through something similar.

By: Annika

Annika — Sun, 11 May 2008 01:21:03 +0000

ha ha…. sounds exactly what happened to me in middle school. i had THE BIGGEST crush and i wanted to let him know so badly it totally scared him off. one time he actually ran away from me in the other direction. quite embarrassing.

^.^ Annika

By: Erika

Erika — Sat, 05 Jul 2008 16:32:18 +0000

This is really really great. More young people need to read this!

By: Angela

Angela — Fri, 15 Aug 2008 01:33:55 +0000

I have a problem with crushing. I’ve been this way since I was little (I’m now 21). Now that I’m older, and the guy might actually start liking me back, then I get scared and run away; or I realize I can’t be with them because of theological or other compatibilities. When I crush I imagine that all of those differences will work out in the end. Most recently I really hurt a guy. We talked all the time and talked about personal stuff, like what we were going through or thoughts on God and such. After talking about how we liked each other, I realized that I couldn’t be with him because of theological differences that I couldn’t get over. This was all basically a telephone and email relationship; we had met in person twice. At the point of realizing that I couldn’t keep going forward, I called and told him so. I wish I could go back and take things more slowly. I felt so stupid and I don’t want to crush anymore.

Could you please tell me how not to have this crushing problem anymore? I would really like to be freed from this whole liking a guy thing. It’s like I can’t go very long without having a crush, or an interest. And then I figure out a reason why it won’t work and bail. It’s hurting me and the other people. Honestly, I like the attention. I like getting emotionally close. I feel so ashamed. I don’t know if I’ll ever have a healthy, normal, good, God-honoring relationship, and I’m starting to not want one at all!

Thank you!

By: Chris

Chris — Wed, 20 Aug 2008 01:48:45 +0000

I had a crush on a girl from JR HIGH i’m now 22. I ran into her about 2 months ago and wow was she more gorgeous than I had ever imagined. She had just got out of an abusive relationship and turned to me and told me that she ‘NEEDED’ me. Well I don’t know exactly what went wrong but we don’t talk any more. I had talked to her about a total of 4 times on the phone and then nothing. U tell me? I find it funny LOL