Purity Workshop March 3-4, 2006 :: Deeper Devotion

Everyday you are bombarded by influences that directly and intentionally challenge and attempt to tear-down your Biblical Worldview — IT’S TIME TO TAKE A STAND

What

Deeper Devotion Purity Workshop
(Read more about our workshops.)

When

March 3rd: 5:00pm — 9:30pm

March 4th: 9:30pm — 8:00pm

Where

North Wake Church
1212 South Main Street
Wake Forest, NC 27587

Contact

Glenn Ansley (Deeper Devotion): 919-522-1532
Noah Joyner (Youth Pastor, North Wake): 919-556-1546

About the Workshop

Before the weekend is over, you will gain a deeper understanding of the source of the struggle against sexual sin, as well as clear view of God’s standards for purity from Scripture, in addition to practical wisdom on how to avoid and combat temptation and live purely in the world around you. We take a fast-paced, no nonsense approach to teaching biblical standards. Workshops engage students through large and small group sessions, interactive worship, personal reflection time, and Q&A sessions.

Volunteer Positions

Deeper Devotion has many volunteer positions that we would love to see parents and friends of North Wake sign up for. Follow the directions below to sign-up. If you have trouble, email Kristie Ansley at kristie@deeperdevotion.com.

How to sign up:

1. Visit our Volunteer Sign Up page.
2. Create an account by filling out the needed information.
3. From the Main Options menu, select the Events link.
4. From the Events page, jump to the month of March.
5. Select a day (Friday or Saturday) to view volunteer positions available.
6. Feel free to sign up for more than one position. (Don’t forget that there are two days!)

Other Needs

Please Contact Kristie Ansley at kristie@deeperdevotion.com if you can provide any of the following:

• Snacks/Cookies
• Breakfast foods (fruit, danishes, etc.)
• 6 small balls (miniature basketballs)
• Flags/Bandanas
• 4-8 cones
• Jerseys for teams during game time
• Dodge Balls
• Four large balls
• Photographer (Needs to have their own camera)
• Video Person (Needs to have their own video camera)

Student Schedule

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Below you will find the weekend schedule for the North Wake Event. Parents are welcomed to attend any of the sessions and encouraged to attend the small group sessions.

Friday, March 3, 2005

Saturday, March 4, 2005

Talk Outlines & Small Group Questions

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Below are some basic outlines for the material being covered. If you questions or are concerned about any of the topics, feel free to contact Glenn Ansley at glenn@deeperdevotion.com.

Large Group One — How Far is Too Far? (Friday Evening)

Rules are good, but they must be based on a ________ ___________ (Colossians 2:20-23)

The manner in which you answer this question will be dependent upon your source of __________ and ___________.

There are two competing standards for sexual purity. The _______ standard and _______ standard.

The world basis its standards for sexual purity on a _______ _______________ of God (Romans 1:18-32).

The world’s false understanding of God lead’s toward the creation of ______-_________ myths. These myths become the new ________ for their sexual purity.

The world’s standard for sexual morality will always lead them down a ______ of ____________.

God’s standard for sexual purity is far ________ than ours.

When we observe the world around us, certain attributes are always true about ________ ___________.

So how far is too far?

• According to Matthew, those of us who have impure thoughts in our head have ________ ______ too far.
• God’s standards are _______. God’s standards are ____-____________.
• When you ask Him how far is too far, you are really asking Him, how much ______ is ________?

Referenced Scriptures
Colossians 2:20-23, Romans 1:18-32, 1 Corinthians 6:13, Jeremiah 17:9, 2 Timothy 3:1-5, Proverbs 5:15-23, Proverbs 5:3-6, Matthew 5:27-28, Ephesians 5:3, Matthew 7:13-14, John 10:9, 10, Jeremiah 29:11, 1 Thessalonians 4:7-8, Luke 6:46-49

Small Group One (Friday Evening)

Purpose: To establish confidentiality as a group, to make any needed introductions, and to introduce conversation about the subject of sexual purity.

Question One: What did you think about the opening session’s representation of the world’s view of sexuality?

• What did you think about the points that they were making?
• Were you aware of how much sexuality is used to sell non-sex related products?
• Do you feel that it is hard to escape sexual content on the internet?
• Do you even notice sexuality in the media or are you desensitized to it?

Question Two: After seeing all that filth and after having this discussion, how would you define sexual impurity?

• Is it impure to with these commercials?
• Does impurity go beyond what you see?
  • In what ways?
• Can you be sexually impure even if you aren’t dating anyone?

Large Group Two — Why Should I Care? (Saturday Morning)

You struggle because you have a decision.

There are several upon several ___________being made every moment of life.

Every second of the day you __________upon things and the proposition that _______offers.

Throughout _______ we have found that reality is to __________ – to decide to act or not to act – to be or not to be, to love or not to love. Life presents itself with ___________ propositions that must be decided upon.

Being ____________ is living with decisions

Additionally, ____________ and ____________ have also presented us with something else that is rooted in humanity – ____________!

Visual Equations

• Daily Life » ___________ » __________ » ___________ = ____________
• Humanity = ____________ and ______________

There is the underlining _______ and correlation between __________ and _________.

One of the main ways sin manifests itself in humanity is (_______________)

• We must __________our focal point and basis for making decisions. It is the same with all of the previous illustrative choices I presented.
• We must _______ God’s ___________ for holiness in ____ matters of _____.
• Many times we make _______ decisions that seem to be God honoring, however, God is often times __________ when making these decisions.
• This is quite evident with regard to __________ _____________!

The correct reason is to____________ God!

Concluding Points:

1. Stop allowing sin to reign over you
2. Stop presenting your body as an instrument of sin
3. Present yourself to God as alive from the dead
4. Use your body as an instrument of righteousness

Large Group Session Three — How Can I Possibly Remain Pure? (Saturday Afternoon)

What are some real life examples concerning sexual struggles you have either heard about or been involved in?

What is “total awareness” of God’s standard and blessing of a life in pursuit of holiness.

Christ’s __________ of this with the _________ of God’s word imploring men and women to _______ ____________ to these truths _________ become the ________ ____________ reality and __________in your life!!!

What are some of the different mindsets and physical resources that are available to help you secure a life that is pleasing to God.

Biblical References Being Used during this section
1 Corinthians 7:8-9, 1 Corinthians 10:13, Hebrews 2:18, Hebrews 4:15-16, Job 31:1, Psalm 119:9-11, Ephesians 5: 3-4, Colossians 2:8, Colossians 2: 20 – 3:11

Small Group Two (Saturday Afternoon)

Purpose: This small group is intended for them to reflect on their personal sins. Make sure that you “reflect feelings” by making statements like, “You look like you’ve got something on your mind” or “You seem focused.” This will open them up quickly. Also, in this session, be prepared to answer these questions for yourself if necessary. Also, make sure you stay away from “yes/no” questions. Ask open ended questions: “Tell me about what… What does that look like… how do you…”

Start with prayer. You may also choose to give your personal testimony if you want. It’s completely up to you.

Questions:

• What are some different ways that we or our friends struggle with sexual purity?
• Where do you derive your standards for sexual purity?
• What are some of your standards?
• Do you find it difficult to meet those standards on a daily basis?
• If you’re not struggling now, what could you see becoming a struggle in the future?
• In what ways do you see sexual immorality affecting your marriage?
  • Your future in general?
  • Your effectiveness as a parent one day?
• Who do you talk to about these sins?
• Do you have any boundaries?
  • How would you respond if your boyfriend or girlfriend didn’t have those same boundaries?
• What level of purity would you like for your future spouse to have when you marry them?

If you have time, or if no conversation is taking place, consider getting into the “hot seat” yourself. Let them ask you anything they want to, but make them discuss the topic after you answer.

This will lead into game time. Take the opportunity to seek out a teenager if you feel like they may need more counsel after this discussion.

Large Group Application Time (Saturday Afternoon)

1. We are in a war, so why are we losing battles? Why is there still impurity in our lives?
2. Impurity is mixing your standards with God’s
3. Sexual immorality is receiving or desiring sexual gratification anyone or anything other than your spouse
4. Sexual immorality is wrong because it is self-worship and/or object-worship, not God-worship.
5. Purity is not about what you do, but what about God does in you and you just getting out of the way

Large Group Session Four — What If I Mess Up? (Saturday Evening)

What are basic truths concerning sexual purity and how we are to fight and depend on God’s glory and grace to sustain us throughout the fight?

List a summary of truths that have been communicated throughout entire conference.

Why should we rethink our view of God and God’s view of us?

What does Romans 12:1-2 imply about our lives?

What is the standard God has for mankind concerning sexual purity?

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